Anonymous asked: I would like to know your opinion about the whole "interracial sex" subject. I for one, am a black man but have been judged countless times by fellow black women because I simply find other races more attractive (which is what I aim for sexwise). Don't get me wrong, I absolutely the way certain black women look but it's just not my thing. Anyways I'd like to read your take on this.
I think interracial (or any kind of) dating can be a wonderful experience that should ideally be free of judgement or condemnation. While I don’t subscribe to the idea of being color blind, I do think it’s awesome when people can love each other despite whatever differences there are between them.
However in situations like yours, I often empathize with the people judging since these rigid ‘preferences’ tend to be hooks used to hang a persons prejudices on.
"I like white girls because [insert stereotype or generalization.]"
"I don’t like black girls because [insert stereotype or generalization.]"
In my experience - which I admit has a limited reach… but it’s the only mechanism I have to share my opinion - people who don’t find the characteristics of their own ethnicity attractive tend to offer explanations of bigotry when they explain why they “find other races more attractive.”
Maybe it’s not always the case, but it seems from my experience to be the norm. It’s that norm, not necessarily the individual, that many black women find disgusting.
This isn’t even getting into the topic of black men that have histrionically (and recently judging by many hip hop artist that have) associated non-black women with higher social status or sophistication.
But regardless, you aren’t really obligated to get anyone to understand or accept your preferences. I’m not sure what you are looking for when you go around telling “countless” black women that you aren’t attracted to them, or others that look like them - oh except for the token ones who get the ‘you’re pretty for a black girl’ treatment.
I’m cool with you wanting to fuck [insert your desired race] but it’s incredibly mean spirited and patronizing to look for black women - the same women you single out as less attractive- to validate your preference, and then when they don’t, use it as continued reasoning for your preference.
the black panthers cackle as they rub their hands together. “lmao soon all these fuckin kids are gonna have free breakfast,” they whisper, “all of them”